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All About Engagement Rings
Shopping for an engagement ring is easy with this complete guide to diamonds,
settings, and metals.
No bride-to-be feels like she’s really getting married until that all important
ring adorns her left finger. You know the one, swooned over at the office water
cooler, eliciting looks of envy from all who witness its sparkle. The engagement
ring may well be the only pre-wed accessory sweeter than an actual, adoring
fiancé.
It’s best to face every big purchase equipped with a little savvy. Here’s
what you need to know about engagement rings before you start shopping.
First – A Primer on Engagement Rings Cost
The two-months salary convention is a common starting point, but in reality,
the ring’s cost should be what the couple can afford without going into major
debt. Cost varies for a lot of reasons – especially when diamonds are involved.
Carat size is just one factor. In fact, a one-carat center stone can cost
anywhere from $1,000 to $20,000. Choice of metal also affects the bottom line;
there’s a significant cost difference between a setting of sterling silver and
one of platinum – anywhere from a few hundred to over a thousand.
With that said, the average cost of an engagement ring in the U.S. is between
$3,500 and $4,000. (according to About.com).
Now, put together the perfect engagement ring with these three easy steps:
Step 1: Choose Pick Your Ring Metal
Platinum
Great because…
It’s valuable: King Louis declared platinum the only metal fit for a king. Need
we say more?
It’s durable: Platinum is resistant to tarnish and great for holding prong
settings.
It’s hypoallergenic: Platinum is 90–95% pure and won’t irritate the skin.
The downside…
It’s expensive: It’s rare, making it more expensive.
It’s malleable: Platinum nicks and scratches easily; however, since no metal is
lost, it can be buffed to look good as new.
Gold
Great because…
It’s traditional: Gold has withstood the test of time to be the most common
wedding ring metal.
It’s less expensive: Gold is more abundant than platinum, making it more
affordable.
The downside…
It’s soft: Making it susceptible to denting.
It’s not as pure: Gold is always mixed with metal alloys (copper, silver,
nickel) to make it stronger. The lower the karat, the higher the percentage of
other metals.
It can irritate skin: Metal alloys can cause allergic reactions.
Titanium
Great because…
It’s hypoallergenic.
It’s strong – three times stronger than steel.
It’s inexpensive.
The downside…
It can’t be resized.
Silver
Great because…
It’s the least expensive precious metal.
The downside…
It’s extremely soft: Even when combined with other metals, it shows wear over
time.
It can irritate skin: Usually combined with nickel to make it stronger, silver
can cause skin irritations.
Step 2: Choose your Engagement Ring Setting
Settings are the mountings that attach the diamond to the ring’s band.
Setting and stone shape selection should go hand in hand, as getting the right
combination is key in creating a desired look.
Prong
Prong settings usually have six or four prongs (or claws) that cradle the
diamond. Prongs allow the maximum light to enter the diamond from all angles,
making it appear larger and more brilliant. The prong setting with a solitaire
round brilliant stone is the classic engagement ring look.
Bar
A variation on the prong setting, rather than individual claws, prongs on each
side of the setting are fused into elongated bars to hold the stone in place.
This option highlights more metal without obscuring the stone.
Bezel
The diamond is set with a metal rim around the perimeter of the diamond to hold
it in place. A bezel setting can be a full bezel, or a part bezel. In a part
bezel setting, the metal only partially surrounds the diamond, leaving the top
and bottom of the stone exposed.
Tension
The diamond is held in place by the pressure of the band’s metal, resulting in
the startling appearance of the diamond being held in midair. The result is a
highly contemporary, fashionable look.
Channel
Diamonds of similar size and shape are lined in a row between the band’s two
horizontal sides. A variation of the channel setting is the Channel End setting,
which features thin vertical bars in between each of the stones.
Pave
This design coats the entire surface of the ring with gems, each set into either
a minute depression or secured with thin, unobtrusive prongs. Because of their
vintage antique look, pave settings are becoming increasingly popular.
Cluster
This setting surrounds a larger center stone with several smaller stones. It is
designed to create a larger ring from many smaller stones.
Baguette
Baguettes are rectangular-shaped diamonds that can be added to the sides of a
larger stone, adding dimension to a solitaire setting.
Three-stone setting
This setting features a trio of stones, symbolizing yesterday, today, and
tomorrow. The stones can either be of equal size or the center stone slightly
larger.
Step 3: Choose your Diamonds
As the stone is the most noticeable – and costly – component of the
engagement ring, picking the right diamond can be a formidable task. Here’s
everything you need to know to get the look, quality, and cost that suits you.
Diamond
Shape
Shape is the overall form of the finished stone (opposed to cut, which describes
the angles of the stone’s facets) and is the biggest factor in the diamond’s
appearance. Even before the 4 Cs (cut, color, clarity, and carat), you must
determine the stone shape you prefer.
The 4 Cs
Cut: Cut refers to the number, placement, and quality of a diamonds facets. The
cut of a diamond has the biggest affect on its sparkle – or brilliance. Even
with perfect color and clarity, a poor cut can make a diamond look dull.
Rankings (Ideal,
Very good,
Good,
Fair,
Poor)
Color: The less color present in a diamond, the more rare it is, which in turn
makes the value higher. The majority of diamonds used in engagement rings show
very little to no color to the untrained eye.
Rankings:
D – Absolutely colorless (extremely rare)
E – Colorless (only minute traces of color can be detected by an expert
gemologist – also rare)
F – Colorless (minute traces of color can only be detected by a trained
gemologist)
G–H – Near colorless (noticeable color only when compared to higher color
grades)
I–J - Near colorless (slightly detectable color)
K–M- Faint color noticeable
N–Z – Noticeable color
**Note that fancy yellow or other hued diamonds are graded on a different color
scale than white diamonds.
Clarity: Diamond clarity is determined by the internal and external
imperfections visible under 10x magnification. The fewer inclusions and
blemishes, the better the clarity - and more valuable the diamond.
Diamond
Grading Scale:
FL: Flawless (shows no inclusions or blemishes)
IF: Internally Flawless (contains no inclusions; minor blemishes tolerated)
VVS1 & VVS2*: Very Very Slight Included (contains minute inclusions that are
extremely difficult to locate)
VS1 & VS2*: Very Slight Included (contains minute inclusions, such as clouds,
crystals, or feathers, which are difficult to locate)
SI1 & SI2*: Slightly Included (noticeable inclusions such as clouds, knots,
crystals, cavities, and feathers)
SI3: Slightly Included (contains inclusions that are very easy to see with
10-times magnification)
I1, I2, I3: Included (contains very obvious inclusions, which can usually be
seen with the naked eye)
*Note: Size, position, and number of inclusions determine distinctions
between VVS1 & VVS2, VS1 and VS2, SI1 and SI2.
Carat: Diamond weight is measured in carats; the greater the carat weight,
the rarer – and more expensive – the diamond. Once you’ve determined what cut,
color, and clarity grade you’re looking for in a diamond, it’s easy to determine
the carat weight of that quality of diamond that will fit within your budget.
**Note: Before you buy your stone, ask the retailer to provide you with a
diamond report issued by an independent gemological association, such as the GIA
or AGS.
Guys & Grooms
While the women traditionally run the show for all things wedding, the guys
shouldn't necessarily be relegated to the sidelines. Here's practical advice for
the guys.
Wedding Planning for Grooms
As the groom to be, your job doesn’t end with “yes.” Sure, planning the
proposal is your most important task (and we've got some great romantic proposal
ideas), but there’s lots of work that needs to be done before you get to “I Do.”
In addition to picking your best man and groomsmen, perhaps your most important
task is making sure your bride to be doesn't go crazy from the stress before the
wedding day.
Ready to pop the question? Our complete guide to buying diamond engagement rings
will walk you through the process of selecting the right stone and setting. Make
the right decision with the engagement ring and ask lots of questions before
purchasing. Your bride to be will start talking with her hand in no time.
Here are some helpful tips for you on popping the question and doing your
part for the wedding:
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